Hello- my name is Cayla Tucker and I am creating this spotfund for few reasons, before I go into details; please do not come at me with hateful comments, it’s very hard for me to do this.
I am a single mom of two babies under age of two and they are currently with their grandparents for now due to legal issues going on within my family. As many of you guys know I was raised by my grandmother while my biological father lived next door to us and raised all his other children. It was very hard on me and I over the time developed some serious behavioral issues that was contributed to severe controlling by my grandmother and feeling rejected/unloved by my biological father so I do have hard time coping with some of my issues but I am working on it with professional helps. Growing up when I was younger I did have therapist/social workers and etc, many of them were already biased cause they either grew up with my family members/and other half of them them would break the confidential information with my
Grandmother about what I shared with them. I had zero safe space or safe person to confide in. It made me shut down more and more so my behavior did get worse over the time. Mind you, I watched my father next door allowing all my younger siblings have access to technologies, watch any movies/tv show they wanted, they could have friends over, they could do so many things that I couldn’t do. It was really hard for me to grow up under very severe controlled environments while my siblings next door had all these freedoms/loves/access to normal teenager lives WHEN I COULDNT and the reasons was always the was because I’m always a bad girl,’always doing bad things, etc etc. BUT in reality I’m just a broken girl who lashed out of emotion pain/craved so hard for loves/attention from my bio father and fair treatments as other especially my siblings had. We are all CLOSED AGE to eachother!!!
The reason why I’m explaining some of my history is to help you understand why I have arrived to this point of who I am now. Not seeking for any pity, just want you guys to UNDERSTAND.
I was recently charged with Domestic Violence that was instigated by my grandmother. She has ring camera installed all over the house and she would CLIP certain videos of my part which I am NOT proud of.. But keep in your mind, my reaction was based on being instigated by other family parties.
Unfortunately yes there was an altercation between the family members and I in front of my child, my child got hurt by the incident. (Not severe, just a minor incident and the child. Is very okay, did not even need medical attention)
My grandmother showed the clip of me reacting to her instigating me but didn’t show what the cause of it so the authorities took that clip into as evidence of me harming my child instead of asking to review the entire clip of HoW it started to the end. The grandmother weaponized my child against me and I reacted by trying to take my child from her and it became a tug a war and in the end she had the family (two males) members jump and punch me in the face to show me that she can and always will overpower me.
Due to what I just explained^^^^
I’m currently facing legalities/court and family battle now with the grandmother. She is trying to take my kids away from where they are at now, they are in good hands (with my children’s father’s mom)
Yet the grandmother still CANT leave us alone and STILL wants to control me by fighting me in court over my kids.
I need help to raise some money so I can move into my own place and meet the court criteria in order to be able to regain custody of my babies.
My children’s father is also doing his part but we have to do it separately due to PFA that was filed by my grandmother as well.
My children’s father can see the babies and have access to them but I can’t until I meet all the court criteria’s.
I am working at a job part time, I do have my own vehicle, I do have my monthly S.S. But that isn’t enough to cover what I need.
I’m asking for help from the community.
I am open to show my journey process from time to time so you can see how I am doing/handling this journey with the court/the system.
Many thanks!!
