My name is Don Lovingood, and my wife and I have been married for 20 years. We’re raising six sons, and everything in my life has always been about being there for them—showing up, providing, and being the father they can count on.
That changed after a car accident left me paralyzed from the waist down.
Since then, every day has become a challenge. The smallest things—getting out of bed, moving safely, even leaving the house—now require help and equipment we don’t have yet.
One moment I can’t shake… my youngest son recently asked me to come outside and play with him. Before the accident, I would’ve been the first one out the door. This time, I had to sit there and tell him I couldn’t go—not because I didn’t want to, but because I physically couldn’t get there safely.
He looked at me, confused, and said, “It’s okay, Dad… I’ll just play and come back.”
And I just sat there… listening to my kids play outside without me.
That’s when it really hit me how much has changed.
I’m asking for help because I’m trying to get the equipment that will allow me to live safely and be present for my family again:
- Hoyer Lift: $2,500–$5,000
- Medical Supplies (ongoing care): $300–$800/month
- Wheelchair-Accessible Mobility Van: $25,000–$60,000
These aren’t luxuries. They’re what make it possible for me to move safely, reduce the physical strain on my wife, and get to my medical appointments.
Right now, my wife is carrying more than anyone should have to, and I’m doing everything I can to stay strong for her and for our boys. I don’t want to just watch their lives from the sidelines—I want to be in them.
If you’re able to give, thank you. If not, sharing this would still mean everything to us.
I truly appreciate you taking the time to read our story.
