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Fight For Scarlett's Future: My Daughter, My Fight

Fight For Scarlett's Future: My Daughter, My Fight

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Destiny Torgerson

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Destiny Torgerson

Destiny Torgerson

Davenport, Iowa

$820of $4,000 goal
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I’m Destiny, I am the mother of Scarlett, the most beautiful, smart, kind, intelligent little girl who has gone through so much in her little life. The last 6 years have not been easy for us, while my life has changed significantly in that time, Scarlett and I have been faced with things no mother and child should ever have to go through, the trauma we have endured and conquered is tremendous, however last July a journey for custody began. And now I am faced with the task of retaining a lawyer, at the suggestion of my friends I have made this fundraiser.

I filed this custody case myself back in April because I couldn’t afford an attorney. Since then I’ve done all of it alone, every filing, every hearing, every piece of paperwork, teaching myself as I went because my daughter’s safety couldn’t wait for me to figure out how to afford help. Legal aid turned me down. Even the judge overseeing my case recommended I get a lawyer, that’s how serious this has become.

My next hearing is August 13 and it will decide Scarlett’s custody for the long term. I’m asking the people who know me, who’ve watched me fight for her every single day, to help me walk into that courtroom with real representation behind me. She deserves a stable home. She deserves a mom who had the same resources to fight for her that the other side has.

If you can give anything, even a few dollars, it goes straight toward giving Scarlett the future she deserves. Thank you for loving us enough to read this and for however you’re able to help.

Fundraiser Updates (3)

August 12, 2026
Destiny Torgerson
Destiny Torgerson

I’m incredibly embarrassed to even ask for help again, but I’m still drowning.

Scarlett’s needs are met. I got her school supplies, clothes, shoes, food, everything she needs. But getting her what she needs has put me further behind on my own necessities.

I’ve missed work, I’m dealing with attorney fees at $425/hr, unexpected car expenses, and bills that keep stacking up. Rent is paid and she is taken care of, but my needs are not (lawyers, car repairs, gas)

I’m doing everything I can to keep things normal for her while trying to survive everything happening behind the scenes. I hate asking, but I genuinely still need help.

If you can donate or share, please do. ❤️ I’m incredibly grateful for every bit of support.

August 08, 2026
Destiny Torgerson
Destiny Torgerson

Hi friends as if my luck couldn’t get worse, my car had an attempted theft yesterday. So now with a broken window, and a damaged ignition on top of lawyer fees I am STRUGGLING. Anything helps genuinely

July 28, 2026
Destiny Torgerson
Destiny Torgerson

UPDATE: I found a lawyer!

Between donations, a loan, and help from my dad and stepmom Laina, I raised enough to retain an attorney for Scarlett’s case. After months of doing this alone, I finally have real representation walking into court with me on August 13.

Thank you doesn’t cover what this means. But the retainer only covers so much, his hourly rate after that is $425, and this case isn’t over after August. I’m keeping this fundraiser open because the costs will keep coming.

If you can still help, it goes straight toward keeping her lawyer on the case. Thank you for fighting for her with us.

Joy Downen

Joy Downen

$100 • Recent donation

James Torgerson

James Torgerson

$500 • Top donation

Issa Nockideneh-Browning

Issa Nockideneh-Browning

$100 • First donation

Organizer

Destiny Torgerson

Destiny Torgerson is the organizer of this fundraiser

Fight For Scarlett's Future: My Daughter, My Fight
Destiny Torgerson

Destiny Torgerson

Davenport, Iowa

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Destiny Torgerson

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I’m Destiny, I am the mother of Scarlett, the most beautiful, smart, kind, intelligent little girl who has gone through so much in her little life. The last 6 years have not been easy for us, while my life has changed significantly in that time, Scarlett and I have been faced with things no mother and child should ever have to go through, the trauma we have endured and conquered is tremendous, however last July a journey for custody began. And now I am faced with the task of retaining a lawyer, at the suggestion of my friends I have made this fundraiser.

I filed this custody case myself back in April because I couldn’t afford an attorney. Since then I’ve done all of it alone, every filing, every hearing, every piece of paperwork, teaching myself as I went because my daughter’s safety couldn’t wait for me to figure out how to afford help. Legal aid turned me down. Even the judge overseeing my case recommended I get a lawyer, that’s how serious this has become.

My next hearing is August 13 and it will decide Scarlett’s custody for the long term. I’m asking the people who know me, who’ve watched me fight for her every single day, to help me walk into that courtroom with real representation behind me. She deserves a stable home. She deserves a mom who had the same resources to fight for her that the other side has.

If you can give anything, even a few dollars, it goes straight toward giving Scarlett the future she deserves. Thank you for loving us enough to read this and for however you’re able to help.

Fundraiser Updates (3)

August 12, 2026
Destiny Torgerson
Destiny Torgerson

I’m incredibly embarrassed to even ask for help again, but I’m still drowning.

Scarlett’s needs are met. I got her school supplies, clothes, shoes, food, everything she needs. But getting her what she needs has put me further behind on my own necessities.

I’ve missed work, I’m dealing with attorney fees at $425/hr, unexpected car expenses, and bills that keep stacking up. Rent is paid and she is taken care of, but my needs are not (lawyers, car repairs, gas)

I’m doing everything I can to keep things normal for her while trying to survive everything happening behind the scenes. I hate asking, but I genuinely still need help.

If you can donate or share, please do. ❤️ I’m incredibly grateful for every bit of support.

August 08, 2026
Destiny Torgerson
Destiny Torgerson

Hi friends as if my luck couldn’t get worse, my car had an attempted theft yesterday. So now with a broken window, and a damaged ignition on top of lawyer fees I am STRUGGLING. Anything helps genuinely

July 28, 2026
Destiny Torgerson
Destiny Torgerson

UPDATE: I found a lawyer!

Between donations, a loan, and help from my dad and stepmom Laina, I raised enough to retain an attorney for Scarlett’s case. After months of doing this alone, I finally have real representation walking into court with me on August 13.

Thank you doesn’t cover what this means. But the retainer only covers so much, his hourly rate after that is $425, and this case isn’t over after August. I’m keeping this fundraiser open because the costs will keep coming.

If you can still help, it goes straight toward keeping her lawyer on the case. Thank you for fighting for her with us.

Organizer

Destiny Torgerson

Destiny Torgerson is the organizer of this fundraiser

$820of $4,000 goal
6Donors
3Comments
8Share ArrowShares
Joy Downen

Joy Downen

$100 • Recent donation

James Torgerson

James Torgerson

$500 • Top donation

Issa Nockideneh-Browning

Issa Nockideneh-Browning

$100 • First donation

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