Non Small cell cancer in the lungs spreaded to lymphnoids and has hooked on her second rib causing a lot of pain. Plus it is in her other lung it is at stage 4. She has always been the keeper of the family. The one everyone goes to when there's a problem or situation. Now, most her family are gone and there's no one for her to go to for help. Shes struggling to pay for medical, prescriptions and just trying to live what life she has left. It's always been everything for everyone else, now, she has no one to lean on but her sister who has been there for her the whole time. Neither of which has any financial stability. They are barely getting by on what income they have. Almost all her utilities are in disconnect and I watch as there is nothing I can do to help her financially. Shes not one to ask for help. Shes always figured out some how, some way to get whatever it was that was needed to fix the problem. This is one problem she never thought in a million years she would have to handle. Most of all not for herself. Seems like when it comes to her it doesn't matter what the problem is. She doesn't want to tell anyone there is a problem. She feels like it is what it is and it must be my turn and that's just the way it is. I on the other hand know there are people and places that will help if she would just ask........which she won't. Shes not an easy person to try to help. If u ask she will say everything's fine regardless if it is or not. I have trouble with watching her struggle so and don't know where else to turn. Hopefully there is someone out there that can help her. If for nothing else at least groceries and utilities. Shes a tough ole bird with a 💜 of gold. I've never seen anything get her down until now. To her it's just her turn but to me it's mine. Shes stepped up for so many I've lost count over the years. Now it's time WE step up for her.... July 7,2023
She started her Kemp on Wednesday and she was told she would lose her hair & nails. Now things are getting scary,she not working anymore and having a really bad time.Fighting this cancer and trying to keep living struggling to keep her head a float.open your hearts up and help her in bad times . God Bless You
