Help Us Celebrate Our Son & Overcome Hardships

My son is about to turn a year old and for this past year me and my fiancé have gotten fired lost our car and had issues with the state over a licensed court issues we haven’t been able to work dispite our best efforts to keep afloat we’ve gone into more debt then we can imagine so I’m asking for both help with a good birthday party for him but also our debts I’ve asked everyone I know and tried everything know that hate doing this