Help Me Protect My Children and Fight for Our Safety
Hi, my name is Stephanie. I never imagined I’d be in a position where I’d have to ask for help like this, but I’ve reached a point where staying silent is no longer an option.
I left a 23-year abusive relationship thinking that walking away would finally bring peace. But the nightmare didn’t end, it just changed. Over the past two years, the abuse has continued in new and terrifying ways.
On April 23, during a custody exchange, my ex pointed a loaded gun at me at a gas station, in front of one of our sons. He then assaulted me and took our child. He was arrested on the spot, also in front of our son. Since then, I’ve been granted a temporary restraining order, and we have a hearing for a permanent one at the end of this month.
Before this event, we were preparing to take our divorce to trial. But now, everything has changed. This incident has led to new legal motions and additional hearings, each one adding to the financial burden. My ex is trying to settle the child support he owes while still pushing for 50/50 timesharing, as if nothing happened.
I am doing everything I can to protect my children and myself, but I can’t do this alone. I need help covering the legal fees necessary to keep us safe. This isn’t just about court dates and paperwork, it’s about survival. It’s about making sure my children and I don’t become another viral headline, another statistic.
I’m unable to share specific details due to legal reasons, but I want to emphasize that I’m taking these steps to protect myself and my children. I’m concerned about our safety and well-being and feel that it’s important to speak up. Unfortunately, the system hasn’t always been supportive of domestic violence victims, and I want to ensure that our voices are heard and that we can move forward safely.
If you’re able to donate or even just share this fundraiser, please know that every bit helps. Your support means more than words can express. Thank you for standing with us in this fight.
With love and gratitude,
Stephanie




