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Stephanie Mendez

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Stephanie Mendez

Stephanie Mendez

Orlando, FL

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Help Me Protect My Children and Fight for Our Safety

 

Hi, my name is Stephanie. I never imagined I’d be in a position where I’d have to ask for help like this, but I’ve reached a point where staying silent is no longer an option.

 

I left a 23-year abusive relationship thinking that walking away would finally bring peace. But the nightmare didn’t end, it just changed. Over the past two years, the abuse has continued in new and terrifying ways.

 

On April 23, during a custody exchange, my ex pointed a loaded gun at me at a gas station, in front of one of our sons. He then assaulted me and took our child. He was arrested on the spot, also in front of our son. Since then, I’ve been granted a temporary restraining order, and we have a hearing for a permanent one at the end of this month.

 

Before this event, we were preparing to take our divorce to trial. But now, everything has changed. This incident has led to new legal motions and additional hearings, each one adding to the financial burden. My ex is trying to settle the child support he owes while still pushing for 50/50 timesharing, as if nothing happened.

 

I am doing everything I can to protect my children and myself, but I can’t do this alone. I need help covering the legal fees necessary to keep us safe. This isn’t just about court dates and paperwork, it’s about survival. It’s about making sure my children and I don’t become another viral headline, another statistic.

 

I’m unable to share specific details due to legal reasons, but I want to emphasize that I’m taking these steps to protect myself and my children. I’m concerned about our safety and well-being and feel that it’s important to speak up. Unfortunately, the system hasn’t always been supportive of domestic violence victims, and I want to ensure that our voices are heard and that we can move forward safely.

 

If you’re able to donate or even just share this fundraiser, please know that every bit helps. Your support means more than words can express. Thank you for standing with us in this fight.

 

With love and gratitude,

Stephanie

 

Fundraiser Updates (2)

December 12, 2025
Stephanie Mendez
Stephanie Mendez

We have made our goal! Thank you all so much for helping us! We have secured an amazing lawyer.

i haven’t closed the spot fund because our case is still ongoing and lawyer fees get eaten up quickly, unfortunately. Any continued donations will still be allocated  for lawyer fees. 

the boys and I are so grateful and thankful for everyone’s comments and support. Your donations are literally saving lives. Thank you all so so much 

September 13, 2025
Stephanie Mendez
Stephanie Mendez

I want to thank everyone who has donated already. We appreciate every single one. 

unfortunately, this update is not a good one. My ex is making false claims about me and calling me an unfit mother.

 

I need a new attorney. My case is so complicated I need someone who is more knowledgeable with these types of situations. 

Please don’t stop sharing! I appreciate everyone’s help, prayers and support. 

-Steph 

Xingyu Zhao

Xingyu Zhao

$10 • Recent donation

Aryanna Brandt-Dedeker

Aryanna Brandt-Dedeker

$5,000 • Top donation

M Lopez

M Lopez

$50 • First donation

Organizer

Stephanie Mendez

Stephanie Mendez is the organizer of this fundraiser

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Stephanie Mendez

Stephanie Mendez

Orlando, FL

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Stephanie Mendez

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Donation protected
👍 0% fee

Help Me Protect My Children and Fight for Our Safety

 

Hi, my name is Stephanie. I never imagined I’d be in a position where I’d have to ask for help like this, but I’ve reached a point where staying silent is no longer an option.

 

I left a 23-year abusive relationship thinking that walking away would finally bring peace. But the nightmare didn’t end, it just changed. Over the past two years, the abuse has continued in new and terrifying ways.

 

On April 23, during a custody exchange, my ex pointed a loaded gun at me at a gas station, in front of one of our sons. He then assaulted me and took our child. He was arrested on the spot, also in front of our son. Since then, I’ve been granted a temporary restraining order, and we have a hearing for a permanent one at the end of this month.

 

Before this event, we were preparing to take our divorce to trial. But now, everything has changed. This incident has led to new legal motions and additional hearings, each one adding to the financial burden. My ex is trying to settle the child support he owes while still pushing for 50/50 timesharing, as if nothing happened.

 

I am doing everything I can to protect my children and myself, but I can’t do this alone. I need help covering the legal fees necessary to keep us safe. This isn’t just about court dates and paperwork, it’s about survival. It’s about making sure my children and I don’t become another viral headline, another statistic.

 

I’m unable to share specific details due to legal reasons, but I want to emphasize that I’m taking these steps to protect myself and my children. I’m concerned about our safety and well-being and feel that it’s important to speak up. Unfortunately, the system hasn’t always been supportive of domestic violence victims, and I want to ensure that our voices are heard and that we can move forward safely.

 

If you’re able to donate or even just share this fundraiser, please know that every bit helps. Your support means more than words can express. Thank you for standing with us in this fight.

 

With love and gratitude,

Stephanie

 

Fundraiser Updates (2)

December 12, 2025
Stephanie Mendez
Stephanie Mendez

We have made our goal! Thank you all so much for helping us! We have secured an amazing lawyer.

i haven’t closed the spot fund because our case is still ongoing and lawyer fees get eaten up quickly, unfortunately. Any continued donations will still be allocated  for lawyer fees. 

the boys and I are so grateful and thankful for everyone’s comments and support. Your donations are literally saving lives. Thank you all so so much 

September 13, 2025
Stephanie Mendez
Stephanie Mendez

I want to thank everyone who has donated already. We appreciate every single one. 

unfortunately, this update is not a good one. My ex is making false claims about me and calling me an unfit mother.

 

I need a new attorney. My case is so complicated I need someone who is more knowledgeable with these types of situations. 

Please don’t stop sharing! I appreciate everyone’s help, prayers and support. 

-Steph 

Organizer

Stephanie Mendez

Stephanie Mendez is the organizer of this fundraiser

$15,190of $25,000 goal
366Donors
120Comments
20Share ArrowShares
Xingyu Zhao

Xingyu Zhao

$10 • Recent donation

Aryanna Brandt-Dedeker

Aryanna Brandt-Dedeker

$5,000 • Top donation

M Lopez

M Lopez

$50 • First donation

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