Support A Family In Crisis: Keep Us Together

So my ex is trying to put me in jail for 6 months... it has been a long 6 years, between Nicu with twins and then losing 1 twin during the pandemic and having another child a year later. The 2 boys are alive and thriving, but have autism and 1 is adhd and non verbal. They start school next week full time and I don't know what to do.