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HelpTishaAndPan

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Fundraising for

Tisha & Pan

Fundraising forTisha & Pan
Finn L

Finn L

Oakland, CA

Tisha Wilder
is collaborating on this fundraiser
$9,262of $15,000 goal
47
Donors
20
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Tisha and Pan got a house, but they need help with moving! 

Tisha and Pan are queer and trans siblings who have found refuge and made a home together throughout their lives. As children, they experienced repeated housing insecurity.  As soon as they were able, Tisha adopted 8-year old Pan in order to stay together and provide Pan with a safe and loving home.  Since then, their story has been a profound one of mutually prioritizing one another in a way that models how “family” and love mean so much more than just being related.   

(Tisha and Pan as kiddos) 

As adults who experience chronic illness and disability, continuing to live together has been an important way to meet the challenges of living in the Bay Area.  Despite this, they have brought their deep generosity and expansive sense of family to their community in the thousands of ways they offer care and support to others, whether in material assistance, emotional support, or caregiving to those of us recovering from illness, surgery, or setbacks.  They have shown us what “chosen family” actually means.  Now, in return, they need our help. 

They were forced to use these savings after a recent car accident and injury left one of them unable to work until they could fully recover. They are now fully and stably employed, but without your help, it will be another big setback for them financially. 

Please donate if you’re able, and share with your networks and those with the means to provide mutual aid. Contributions of any amount to this housing stability Spotfund are accepted - $5, $50, $100, $500+ whatever you have to give will be appreciated. Thank you for helping to create lifelong housing stability for Tisha and Pan! 


(Pan and Tisha today)

Fundraiser Updates (2)

January 14, 2026
Finn L
Finn L

Happy New Year! Thanks to your community care and financial generosity, Tisha and Pan have started off 2026 as homeowners! Just in time to celebrate their “Gotcha” adoption day (the day Tisha formally adopted Pan when Pan was a child and Tisha was a very young adult). Your contribution made a real difference in making their secure, permanent housing a reality. Every donation, no matter the amount, was deeply felt and received with gratitude. Those of us closest to Tisha and Pan, and Tisha and Pan themselves, have been brought to tears (in a good way) each time we saw another person contribute to make this dream a reality.

 

Tisha and Pan were overwhelmed in the best possible way by not only your financial contributions, but your kind words and well wishes. They have poured themselves into this community and shown so much care for others. Having each of you provide care for them was a reflection on the roots they’ve built in the Bay Area and the valuable difference they’ve made in each of your lives. Whether you are close to Tisha and Pan or contributed as a more distant community member, we want you to know that your care and contributions were deeply felt. 

 

We know we live in a world where many things compete for our attention. Thank you for taking the time to read our emails. Thank you for pausing while scrolling, engaging with our posts, and sharing this campaign with others. For responding to our text messages and taking the time out of your day to talk to us. 

 

Far too few queer and trans people, especially those who experience chronic illness and disability, achieve 1st generation home ownership. We hope that in these challenging times, when things feel hopeless or overwhelming, you can remember how this community came together to make the seemingly impossible possible for Tisha and Pan. Each time we practice mutual aid, we make a real difference. 



With gratitude, 

Tisha, Pan, and the care team

 

October 28, 2025
Finn L
Finn L

 

 

Thank you for your generosity and for contributing to and sharing Tisha’s and Pan’s Housing fund. They’ve found a home! They’re ready to put in an offer and just have about $5,000 left to raise to have a permanent, and stable home. It’s a beautiful, little house with just enough space that’s perfect for Tisha, and Pan. 

 

We need your help! If you have the ability to donate again no matter the amount please do! If you don’t have the means please share with your network. 

 

If you’re a person who donated, you’re more likely to have other people in your immediate network who also have the means to donate. Are you able to ask a friend to match your donation? Do you have family members, or friends who have access to generational wealth, or who include charitable giving in their budget? Please share the SpotFund with them.  

 

We are so close and together we can get Tisha and Pan into their new home. 

 

Ren Mayhue

Ren Mayhue

$100 • Recent donation

Anonymous

Anonymous

$2,000 • Top donation

Anonymous

Anonymous

$50 • First donation

Organizer

Finn L

Finn L is the organizer of this fundraiser

Beneficiary
Tisha Wilder

Support  Tisha Wilder  by donating to this fundraiser

HelpTishaAndPan
Finn L

Finn L

Oakland, CA

Tisha Wilder
is collaborating on this fundraiser

Fundraising for

Tisha & Pan

Fundraising forTisha & Pan
Donation protected
👍 0% fee

Tisha and Pan got a house, but they need help with moving! 

Tisha and Pan are queer and trans siblings who have found refuge and made a home together throughout their lives. As children, they experienced repeated housing insecurity.  As soon as they were able, Tisha adopted 8-year old Pan in order to stay together and provide Pan with a safe and loving home.  Since then, their story has been a profound one of mutually prioritizing one another in a way that models how “family” and love mean so much more than just being related.   

(Tisha and Pan as kiddos) 

As adults who experience chronic illness and disability, continuing to live together has been an important way to meet the challenges of living in the Bay Area.  Despite this, they have brought their deep generosity and expansive sense of family to their community in the thousands of ways they offer care and support to others, whether in material assistance, emotional support, or caregiving to those of us recovering from illness, surgery, or setbacks.  They have shown us what “chosen family” actually means.  Now, in return, they need our help. 

They were forced to use these savings after a recent car accident and injury left one of them unable to work until they could fully recover. They are now fully and stably employed, but without your help, it will be another big setback for them financially. 

Please donate if you’re able, and share with your networks and those with the means to provide mutual aid. Contributions of any amount to this housing stability Spotfund are accepted - $5, $50, $100, $500+ whatever you have to give will be appreciated. Thank you for helping to create lifelong housing stability for Tisha and Pan! 


(Pan and Tisha today)

Fundraiser Updates (2)

January 14, 2026
Finn L
Finn L

Happy New Year! Thanks to your community care and financial generosity, Tisha and Pan have started off 2026 as homeowners! Just in time to celebrate their “Gotcha” adoption day (the day Tisha formally adopted Pan when Pan was a child and Tisha was a very young adult). Your contribution made a real difference in making their secure, permanent housing a reality. Every donation, no matter the amount, was deeply felt and received with gratitude. Those of us closest to Tisha and Pan, and Tisha and Pan themselves, have been brought to tears (in a good way) each time we saw another person contribute to make this dream a reality.

 

Tisha and Pan were overwhelmed in the best possible way by not only your financial contributions, but your kind words and well wishes. They have poured themselves into this community and shown so much care for others. Having each of you provide care for them was a reflection on the roots they’ve built in the Bay Area and the valuable difference they’ve made in each of your lives. Whether you are close to Tisha and Pan or contributed as a more distant community member, we want you to know that your care and contributions were deeply felt. 

 

We know we live in a world where many things compete for our attention. Thank you for taking the time to read our emails. Thank you for pausing while scrolling, engaging with our posts, and sharing this campaign with others. For responding to our text messages and taking the time out of your day to talk to us. 

 

Far too few queer and trans people, especially those who experience chronic illness and disability, achieve 1st generation home ownership. We hope that in these challenging times, when things feel hopeless or overwhelming, you can remember how this community came together to make the seemingly impossible possible for Tisha and Pan. Each time we practice mutual aid, we make a real difference. 



With gratitude, 

Tisha, Pan, and the care team

 

October 28, 2025
Finn L
Finn L

 

 

Thank you for your generosity and for contributing to and sharing Tisha’s and Pan’s Housing fund. They’ve found a home! They’re ready to put in an offer and just have about $5,000 left to raise to have a permanent, and stable home. It’s a beautiful, little house with just enough space that’s perfect for Tisha, and Pan. 

 

We need your help! If you have the ability to donate again no matter the amount please do! If you don’t have the means please share with your network. 

 

If you’re a person who donated, you’re more likely to have other people in your immediate network who also have the means to donate. Are you able to ask a friend to match your donation? Do you have family members, or friends who have access to generational wealth, or who include charitable giving in their budget? Please share the SpotFund with them.  

 

We are so close and together we can get Tisha and Pan into their new home. 

 

Organizer

Finn L

Finn L is the organizer of this fundraiser

Beneficiary
Tisha Wilder

Support  Tisha Wilder  by donating to this fundraiser

$9,262of $15,000 goal
47Donors
20Comments
23Share ArrowShares
Ren Mayhue

Ren Mayhue

$100 • Recent donation

Anonymous

Anonymous

$2,000 • Top donation

Anonymous

Anonymous

$50 • First donation

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