Hi! I’m Gigi and I am a newly single mom of 4 (2 teens and 2 toddlers!)
my husband, the man I had been with for 13 years, he walked out on us. It was August the 21st, and I needed him to watch our 3 year old, I had two appointments with our five year old, (she’s neurodivergent & has adhd) but last minute, their dad bailed on me. He bailed on us to go hand out with a friend (mind you he is 42 years old). This was just the tip of the iceberg that had been building. You see, I started therapy back on New years eve last year. I knew I could not live one more year, even one more DAY like that anymore. With work, prayer, and planning…… that secret divorce I was planning actually was divinely intervened, you see this man threw a temper tantrum, packed down the vehicle I used to get our child back and for from appointments, and much more damage, and left! This wasn’t the first time, but I had covered and protected our image for 13 years.
This was my chance.
I had to rebuild from nothing, but it was worth it. I am working several jobs to pay our bills, but I’m making it work! I have been working my butt off to just keep my head above water, and Tik tok is one of the side jobs! I get paid to talk about my story, not much, but enough to help.
Bad news, my ex found my page and he is now threatening to take full custody and to take my kids from me. He’s also threatening my business in which I had to close and that was a huge hit on my income. I’m taking on an extra job at the grocery store to help with lawyer fees, but my villiage is small, I have very limited help with family.I had free legal aid through a small grant in my state when he first left, but that is different from an actual paid lawyer.
I had to rebuild from nothing, but it was worth it. I am working several jobs to pay our bills, but I’m making it work! I have been working my butt off to just keep my head above water, and Tik tok is one of the side jobs! I get paid to talk about my story, not much, but enough to help.
Bad news, my ex found my page and he is now threatening to take full custody and to take my kids from me. He’s also threatening my business in which I had to close and that was a huge hit on my income. I’m taking on an extra job at the grocery store to help with lawyer fees, but my villiage is small, I have very limited help with family.I had free legal aid through a small grant in my state when he first left, but that is different from an actual paid lawyer.
I have been telling my story on tik tok to earn extra cash for Christmas, food, the kids things, I’ve been doing local laundry services, I had a small business up until a few days ago, I work at a small gas station 2 days a week, now I’m looking into the local grocery store as a cashier.
Even though my abusive ex is trying to silence me, i refuse! I need GOOD lawyer. & as I work literally maximum capacity, if I had help getting these funds faster I would be so thankful for answered prayers! Because just pray for the day this is all over. 😭I’ve already started saving, I found an amazing lady who was highly recommended in my area, I’m only asking help with the retainer fee, I plan on saving enough and working for the rest myself!
Even though my abusive ex is trying to silence me, i refuse! I need GOOD lawyer. & as I work literally maximum capacity, if I had help getting these funds faster I would be so thankful for answered prayers! Because just pray for the day this is all over. 😭I’ve already started saving, I found an amazing lady who was highly recommended in my area, I’m only asking help with the retainer fee, I plan on saving enough and working for the rest myself!
