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*SupportTeacherLillyAfterLoss

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Lillian Groom

Fundraising forLillian Groom
Melissa Designori

Melissa Designori

Oakdale, CA

$5,400of $10,000 goal
65
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44
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If you live in the Oakdale community there is a great chance that you know Teacher Lilly Groom.  Lilly has been an Oakdale staple for many years.  She is known for mentoring the young hearts and minds of its youth and adults alike over the last 40+ years as a preschool teacher at her own in home daycare along with several schools and daycares in the area.   If you know Lilly and her Husband Danny you have been graced with their love, giving hearts, and helpfulness. 

 

Lilly recently moved from Oakdale to Texas where she and her husband Danny could continue to live dreams and make memories while she continued doing what she loves...teaching children.  Her grandchildren specifically.   Unfortunately her dreams will have to continue without the love of her life as she lost “her Danny” who recently passed.   This has left the family devastated and needing to make the travel back to California to lay Danny to rest and take care of end of life business.  

 

Lilly will be faced with many unforeseen expenses due to this entire ordeal including transporting Danny back to CA, housing the family while making arrangements to lay Danny to rest and honor him and his wishes. Do to circumstances regarding Danny’s death Lilly will no longer be able to receive the disabled portion of Danny’s retirement. This coupled with all the additional expenses is creating quite the hard ship for her and her family. Many have reached out and asked how they may help this would definitely be a way to help lessen their burden and show them support. Thank you so much in advance and weather you can donate or not please keep them in your prayers as they process and grieve there tragic loss.

Fundraiser Updates (1)

February 07, 2022
Melissa Designori
Melissa Designori

From Shenah, Danny's daughter in law. 

I honestly can’t even believe this is real life. Danny Groom is such an amazing kind man and as a duo Lilly Groom and he were just remarkable. So many stories about how peoples lives were impacted by them.

I never shared this with anyone but in 2008 my father’s life was taken to soon from the same system that took Danny’s. I was not as aware then as I am now. The crazy thing is now you don’t even have to be aware. It happens right in front of your eyes and there is nothing that you can do about it. When I lost my father I grew closer to Danny in a way that was unexpected. He became my dad. He lessened my grief. Not many are blessed in this manner. When We lost Danny it was like me loosing my very own father all over again, but harder because I actually knew what was happening this time. I often think the unaware and trusting are blessed because they are gifted with bliss. It is so hard not to hate, be angry want justice but I have to lean in to that fact everything that happened was for a purpose, every single detail. This was god working and that purpose has not yet been revealed but I know in my heart such a honorable man would not have been taken in such a tragic way without a purpose. 

Danny’s story is not the first, I’m seeing thousands of people with the same story since sharing some of ours. The darkness that has blanketed the world I believe will soon come to light. 

Thank you all for your love, support, prayers and blessings through you we were lifted to fight hard and so was Danny.

We will be sharing all the details as soon as we know keep the family in your prayers as these next days will be very difficult. God bless.

Christian Taylor
Tiffany James
Melissa Tollinche
Kathy Williams-Brison
Nina Kirillova
and others donated recently
Gerry Sawyer

Gerry Sawyer

$50 • Recent donation

Anonymous

Anonymous

$1,000 • Top donation

Stew Peters

Stew Peters

$500 • First donation

Organizer

Melissa Designori

Melissa Designori is the organizer of this fundraiser

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SupportTeacherLillyAfterLoss
SupportTeacherLillyAfterLoss
Melissa Designori

Melissa Designori

Oakdale, CA

Fundraising for

Lillian Groom

Fundraising forLillian Groom
Donation protected
👍 0% fee

If you live in the Oakdale community there is a great chance that you know Teacher Lilly Groom.  Lilly has been an Oakdale staple for many years.  She is known for mentoring the young hearts and minds of its youth and adults alike over the last 40+ years as a preschool teacher at her own in home daycare along with several schools and daycares in the area.   If you know Lilly and her Husband Danny you have been graced with their love, giving hearts, and helpfulness. 

 

Lilly recently moved from Oakdale to Texas where she and her husband Danny could continue to live dreams and make memories while she continued doing what she loves...teaching children.  Her grandchildren specifically.   Unfortunately her dreams will have to continue without the love of her life as she lost “her Danny” who recently passed.   This has left the family devastated and needing to make the travel back to California to lay Danny to rest and take care of end of life business.  

 

Lilly will be faced with many unforeseen expenses due to this entire ordeal including transporting Danny back to CA, housing the family while making arrangements to lay Danny to rest and honor him and his wishes. Do to circumstances regarding Danny’s death Lilly will no longer be able to receive the disabled portion of Danny’s retirement. This coupled with all the additional expenses is creating quite the hard ship for her and her family. Many have reached out and asked how they may help this would definitely be a way to help lessen their burden and show them support. Thank you so much in advance and weather you can donate or not please keep them in your prayers as they process and grieve there tragic loss.

Fundraiser Updates (1)

February 07, 2022
Melissa Designori
Melissa Designori

From Shenah, Danny's daughter in law. 

I honestly can’t even believe this is real life. Danny Groom is such an amazing kind man and as a duo Lilly Groom and he were just remarkable. So many stories about how peoples lives were impacted by them.

I never shared this with anyone but in 2008 my father’s life was taken to soon from the same system that took Danny’s. I was not as aware then as I am now. The crazy thing is now you don’t even have to be aware. It happens right in front of your eyes and there is nothing that you can do about it. When I lost my father I grew closer to Danny in a way that was unexpected. He became my dad. He lessened my grief. Not many are blessed in this manner. When We lost Danny it was like me loosing my very own father all over again, but harder because I actually knew what was happening this time. I often think the unaware and trusting are blessed because they are gifted with bliss. It is so hard not to hate, be angry want justice but I have to lean in to that fact everything that happened was for a purpose, every single detail. This was god working and that purpose has not yet been revealed but I know in my heart such a honorable man would not have been taken in such a tragic way without a purpose. 

Danny’s story is not the first, I’m seeing thousands of people with the same story since sharing some of ours. The darkness that has blanketed the world I believe will soon come to light. 

Thank you all for your love, support, prayers and blessings through you we were lifted to fight hard and so was Danny.

We will be sharing all the details as soon as we know keep the family in your prayers as these next days will be very difficult. God bless.

Organizer

Melissa Designori

Melissa Designori is the organizer of this fundraiser

$5,400of $10,000 goal
65Donors
44Comments
8Share ArrowShares
Christian Taylor
Tiffany James
Melissa Tollinche
Kathy Williams-Brison
Nina Kirillova
and others donated recently
Gerry Sawyer

Gerry Sawyer

$50 • Recent donation

Anonymous

Anonymous

$1,000 • Top donation

Stew Peters

Stew Peters

$500 • First donation

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